San Diego Bachelorette Party Itinerary

First of all, congratulations on choosing one of the most beautiful destinations in the US to host your bachelorette party. San Diego has something to offer everyone, from beaches to hikes to local shops to restaurants of all your cuisine dreams. 

This San Diego bachelorette itinerary can be used as a guideline for your weekend of celebrating LOVE. Also, there are alternative options provided at the end for you to choose from depending upon your mood. Not feeling like going out on the town? Opt for a bonfire on the beach or a cozy night in at your airbnb!

Thursday

4 pm Welcome to San Diego! 

  • If you want to be greeted by a dreamy Southern California sunset, book a Vrbo like this modern oceanfront Cape-Cod-style home. With 180° coastal views from three levels, this house will make you feel like the superstar that you are. 

7:30 pm Taste of SD

  • Lively welcome dinner at Pueblo in Pacific Beach, where their inspiration and recipes are rooted in Baja's colorful culinary traditions.

  • Make sure to indulge in their Nachos de la casa while you all wait for your meals. A simple, yet tasty dish sure to please your hungry bellies.

9:30 pm Evening in 

  • Rest up for your activity-filled weekend by slipping into some cozy pj’s, making a fresh pot of tea, listening to the waves from your Vrbo, and heading to bed at a reasonable hour (especially if you plan to do yoga in the morning, you will thank me!) :)

Friday

9 am Detox to Retox with 

  • The Balanced Bachelorette! Your instructor arrives at your Airbnb for an hour-long customized private yoga session, complete with a Mimosa Bar and a playlist of the bride's favorite tunes. You’ll be refreshed and recharged to take on the town. 

11 am Explore Pacific and Mission Beaches

  • For some shopping and sunning. Refuel with a coffee at Saltwater Culture or a green juice at Juice Kaboose.

12:30 pm Leisurely Brunch 

  • At Palmy’s, an all-day neighborhood cafe, espresso bar, market, and garden, nestled in a craftsman bungalow.

2 pm Recharge

  • Relax by the beach, sip a white claw, and take some group pics while you are all together during this special time. This is the perfect opportunity to put on those cute matching outfits you've been waiting to wear!

5:30 pm It’s Wine-O’clock somewhere. 

  • Pre-dinner drinks at PB Shore Club, which offers one of the best beach views on the Pacific Beach boardwalk.

7 pm Dinner 

  • at JRDN for a more upscale dinner with an ocean view OR

  • Opt for Ambrosio 15, where they offer an authentic Milan-style pizza, importing their organic flour and using a 48-hour rising process. Consider it healthy!

9 pm Bar Hop and Dance 

  • The night away at the numerous bars and clubs alongside and parallel to the Pacific Beach Boardwalk. Maverick’s is always a go-to.

2 am Beauty Rest 

  • Back to your Vrbo for some late-night snacks and some much-needed zzz’s. Don't forget to use those makeup wipes! 

Saturday

10 am Early Bird Gets the Brunch 

  • Enjoy brunch on the town at Flamingo Deck, a beach resort with a whimsical atmosphere

    Or…

  • Get brunch catered straight to you! The Breakfast Republic offers a menu sure to please all your taste buds, including 6 different types of Benedicts and NINE (yes, nine) pancake options. Order it the morning of and wait in your cozy pajamas for it to arrive at your doorstep.

12 pm Time to Sail!

  • Grab your sailor caps, swimsuits, and prepare to cool off ON the water. Pacifica Sailing Charters offers private Nautical Bachelorette Sailing Parties. They allow you to bring your own booze and food, so be sure to pack for an afternoon of fun in the sun. 

3 pm Head back to your house

  • Change out of your salty clothing and into something fresh and fun

7 pm Downtown Dining

  • Dinner at Searsucker, a popular restaurant in Gaslamp Quarter known for shared plates and its vivacious bar and lounge area

  • After Dinner Shots shots and more shots! 

    • Walk the streets of Gaslamp/downtown and find spots like Sidebar, San Diego’s most lively, intimate boutique nightclub + lounge

Sunday

10 am Re-fuel with a classic

  • Bagels! After running around town all weekend, you’ll probably want something quick and appetizing at this point. Head to Brueggers Bagels for all your freshly-baked desires.

1 pm Brunch Bunch

  • Hit locals spot Kono’s Cafe and count how many surfers you spot! Located right next to Crystal Pier in Pacific Beach, you can dine and watch the waves.

6 pm Final Fiesta 

  • Prep dinner at home and enjoy a relaxing final evening at your Airbnb. This is a perfect time to share photos and bond with your group once more before saying goodbye (until the wedding day, that is!).

The best time of year to visit San Diego if you’re looking to lay out on the beach or run around in a sun-dress is May-September. While the Fall/Winter months are still warm in comparison to most of the US, a sweater, scarf, and hot mug of tea are often still necessary. 

TRANSPORTATION

San Diego has wonderful public transportation, from the trolley to the coaster that runs all the way up to Oceanside to the public bus. Uber and Lyft are always accessible 24/7. You can also rent bikes to cruise all over individual beach towns. 

THE NEIGHBORHOODS

Pacific Beach

Has a mix of upscale and casual restaurants and hotels, and a relaxed beach vibe. One of the best spots to take surf lessons is at Tourmaline, where the waves stay pretty mild (usually about 2-3’)

  • The Fish Shop for a more casual environment. Choose from a range of fresh, local fish (I suggest the blackened red snapper)!

  • Second Nature offers many organic vegetarian/gluten-free options. Their coconut Thai curry is a must-try.

  • The Fishery’s menu changes with the seasons and is more upscale. The Bar manager states, “Balance is our favorite ingredient behind the bar. We start with one seasonal ingredient and build a cocktail around it.” Stop in for a summery cocktail and their oysters on the half shell.

La Jolla

A more high-end and offers (in my opinion) some of the most idyllic coastal scenes in San Diego! Check out the tide pools and discover all kinds of sea life! Go down to La Jolla Cove to say hello to the dozens of sea lions that reside there. 

  • Parakeet Cafe is great for a late lunch/early dinner if you feel like a luscious salad or organic bowl. If you go for brunch, don’t leave without trying their gluten free cacao waffle!

  • Enjoy dinner on an open-air terrace at George’s at the Cove. This place won the “‘Best of the Best’ Fancy Restaurant Category” and “Beef Tartare” featured in ‘103 Dishes You Should Absolutely Positively Eat Before You Die,’” both in San Diego Magazine. 

  • Trilogy Sanctuary is a go-to spot if you want to sip on some tea or kombucha and enjoy a vegan/gluten-free meal on a rooftop overlooking La Jolla. Their desserts (especially the “Transcendent” Brownie) are so rich you could drown. 

Downtown/Little Italy

For a more urban, fast-paced vibe farther away from the ocean. 

  • King and Queen Cantina brings Latin flavor to San Diego. Their Birria tacos are amongst the most popular.

  • New hotspot Coco Maya offers an unforgettable lobster ravioli with sauteed oyster mushrooms, bechamel truffle sauce, and thyme. 

  • Garage Kitchen and Bar offers live music every Friday and Saturday from 6-9. Order their Californication cocktail (tequila, watermelon liqueur, triple sec, mango juice, and lime juice) and hit the dance floor!

Coronado

An island whose beaches are consistently voted best in the U.S. by Dr. Beach.

Encinitas

About 30 minutes north of Downtown San Diego and offers a more peaceful setting. Here you’ll find crystal shops, meditation gardens, and Swami’s Beach, where Paramahansa Yogananda wrote much of “Autobiography of a Yogi.”

Ocean Beach

Also known as “Hippie Beach”, is probably the most laid-back of all the neighborhoods. You’ll find many surfers living out of their vans; people selling handmade jewelry on the sidewalk; drum circles by the beach. 

OTHER ACTIVITIES

  • Bonfires Brought to you!  Free Delivery of All Fire Pit Rentals To Mission Beach and La Jolla Shores from Beach and Bay Bonfires. Enjoy a night under the stars without the hassle.

  • Kayak Tour with Everyday California around La Jolla Ecological Reserve, a Marine-Protected Area “that’s home to a thriving underwater ecosystem that boasts one of the highest concentrations of sea life in all of California!”

  • Jet Ski Rental from SD Adventures, which offers a brand-new fleet of high-end jet skis so that you can fully enjoy all that San Diego Bay has to offer.

  • One of the closest, most beautiful wineries is in Temecula, a 1.5 hour drive from San Diego. At Ponte Vineyards, you can embark on a 1-hour Vineyard Estate Tour, which “provides a fascinating look at a working winery. Embark on our 10-passenger electric bus and tour our 310-acre ranch. Learn about our grape growing philosophy as you taste signature Ponte wines among the vineyards from which they are grown.”

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